So frustrating.
I use preloaded environments, such as The Tavern on my most recent render, and it comes with all these lights preloaded. And I didn't add any, changed the intensity on the one labeled sun(s) and also tried to make it approximate moonlight....and it's still really, really bright and washed out...not natural looking at all and I'm uncertain what to do to fix it.
Thinking of going back into it and deleting all of them, with the exception of those mentioned above that I tried to correct, but I do want a kind of orange glow from the lanterns that are in the scene. So I'll have to figure out how to do that.